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The Challenges of Finding the Right School for My 7-Year-Old Autistic Son in Germany

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When my husband suggested relocating to Germany in 2018, I thought my biggest challenges would be the language barrier and starting a new career. I was excited, nervous, and scared, but my biggest motivation was my children. Insecurity was becoming an issue in Nigeria, and my son was showing signs of being on the autism spectrum. We thought Germany would be a great place to get the support we couldn’t find in Nigeria. Don’t get me wrong—Germany is a fantastic country with excellent education, one of the best healthcare systems, and substantial social benefits. To top it all off, we don’t have to worry about insecurity. But when it comes to raising a child with special needs, especially autism, Germany is surprisingly far behind for such a highly developed country. The school system in Germany is particularly challenging for children on the spectrum because it is very inflexible. In Germany, it is compulsory to send your child to the Grundschule (the equivalent of primary school), and you could be fined if you do otherwise. Homeschooling is illegal except under extraordinary circumstances. At six, your child must be registered at the community elementary school, where they will stay for the next four years. My son is seven years old, almost eight, and we have yet to find a school for him. Why? The Grundschule is not structured to accommodate children with any form of disability, whether physical, mental, or intellectual. The teachers and most of the staff have zero training when it comes to children with special needs. The lack of awareness is astounding. My son’s first four days at the Grundschule were disastrous and traumatizing. You might wonder why I took my son to the Grundschule instead of a specialized school. We searched for a school for a whole year, and every school we applied to rejected us. My son is non-verbal autistic with high intellectual and learning abilities, but most special needs schools (Förderzentrum) take only children with learning disabilities. Therefore, they have no capacity for children with an IQ above 60. And because it is against the law in Germany to keep your child at home, we had to take him to the Grundschule, despite knowing it wouldn’t work. The main issues with finding a school for kids with autism are: Limited Schools: There are few schools for children who need emotional and social support like my son. If your child has Down syndrome, cerebral palsy, or a learning disability, you might find a school. However, the system does not cater to the needs of children with neurodevelopmental disabilities like autism without a learning disability. Lack of Special Needs Teachers: There is a significant lack of special needs teachers or trained school accompaniment (Schulbegleiter) who can assist your child in a regular classroom. Most Grundschule teachers have not interacted with children with special needs and have no idea what to do. My son’s class teacher, despite having a Ph.D., is constantly panicking around him. Parental Influence: Parents of other children have significant influence over the school. If a parent is uncomfortable with your special needs child being in the classroom, your child has to leave. Long Waiting Lists: Even if you find the right school, the waiting list is so long that your child might be ready for high school by the time a spot opens up. The waiting list can take as long as two years or more. Unhelpful Government Bodies: The government body in charge of special education is ineffective, offering no sound advice and providing little assistance. Language Barrier: If you are a foreigner struggling with the German language, your frustration doubles. School officials and government bodies primarily communicate in German, and finding English speakers is rare. It’s either you find a school or no school; there is no alternative, which is why my son has been home for the last eight months. The bureaucracy is tedious, requiring many forms and conversations in German with no real results. We have applied to all the schools in my city and have either been rejected or placed on a waiting list. This will be our ninth month without school for my son. I had to quit my job to be home with him. It has not been easy, but God is faithful. If you have a child with special needs and you plan to relocate to Germany, I advise you to make all your findings before taking the leap. If you are in a similar situation, write to me in the comment section. If you have any questions, I will be happy to respond. Cheers! Read more

Faith and Fear.

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Faith and Fear. Hebrews 11vs 1(NIV): Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see. When you hear the word “Faith,” what do you think? What comes to mind? Do you think of faith as a religion or absolute trust in God? What does the word of God teach us about Faith? What is Faith? As seen in Hebrews 11;1(NIV), faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see. In essence, Faith is trust; it is the absolute belief in God that no matter your situation, God is in control. Why do you need Faith? Hebrews 11; 6(NIV), And without faith it is impossible to please God because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him. It is very straightforward: you cannot have faith in what you do not believe. Faith is absolutely impossible without belief. How can you expect something from a God you do not believe? Belief has nothing to do with evidence or seeing. It has everything to do with our hearts. The Bible says in Romans 10,10 (NLT), “For it is by Believing in your heart that you are made right with God”. Therefore, how can you be made right with God without faith? How can you live in this world filled with turmoil, violence, and strife without Faith when the word of God clearly says, “Now the just (righteous) shall live by faith” (Hebrews 10,38 KJV). The modal verb Shall is a strong assertion used for future tense; it means you must do something. You cannot be a Christian without faith. It is your shield(Protection); can a soldier go to war without his shield? Therefore, you cannot be a Christian without your shield. We are also soldiers in the army of Christ, with God our Jehovah Sabaoth (The lord of host). You fight a spiritual battle every day. Our war is in the supernatural; Ephesians 6,12(NIV) says: “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world, and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” Dear child of God, how do you plan on defeating the devil without God? How can you be right with God without Faith? And how can you have faith without believing!! What is Fear? The Merriam-Webster dictionary states, “ Fear is an unpleasant, often strong emotion caused by anticipation or awareness of danger.” Everyone on earth has experienced and is still experiencing fear. At this moment of writing this article, we have an ongoing war with Ukraine and Russia, and 11 days ago, the battle between Israel and Hamas started. People live in fear of death, disease, poverty, and everything you can think of. Why do you fear? According to the definition above, Fear is a strong emotion triggered by your anticipation of a situation and your awareness of perceived danger. You have an expectation you anticipate in whatever situation you find yourself in, and whenever, your anticipation doesn’t match your expectations, Fear comes in. You are distressed, and you feel out of control. This is purely a human reaction; there is nothing terrible about it. Whenever you feel a perceived danger, Fear is triggered. Your desperation creates fear. How Does the Devil Come In? Guess what? Every time you experience fear, the devil is pleased. He focuses on your fear and keeps expanding it until you are paralyzed by it. The devil bombards you with negative thoughts about your situation until you find yourself in the abyss of hopelessness and can’t crawl out. You find yourself depressed, the joy of living sucked out of you, and the devil will have you where he wants you Destroyed through your own mind. What did God say about Fear? You cannot avoid fear. You will constantly be confronted with Fear. However, you can refuse to be overwhelmed by it. You can take control of your emotions back from the devil. The next question is, How? Through the word of God, every time you feel fear, remind yourself what God has said about it. 2 Timothy1,7 (KJV)“ For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love and of sound mind.” 1 John 4,18 (KJV) “ There is no fear in love, but perfect love casteth out fear; because fear hath torment. He that fears is not made perfect in love. Proverbs 29,25 (NIV) “ Fear of man will prove to be a snare but whoever trusts in the Lord is kept safe” Joshua 1,9 (KJV)” Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go” Psalm 34,4 (KJV)” I sought the LORD, and he answered me; he delivered me from all my fears” Isaiah 41,10 (KJV)” So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Faith Conquers Fear Last Sunday, my pastor spoke on fear, and what struck me the most was this question? How do you respond to fear? Do you let your fear overwhelm you like the devil wants? Or Do you let your fear push you into the arms of God? And this is where your faith manifests itself. Proverbs 29;25 says, “ Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is kept safe.” The action word here is Trust, not trust in yourself, which is totally useless; not trust in others, humans will fail you. But trust in the lord who created you, the universe, and everything in it. The Lord who knew you before you were formed in your mother’s womb Jeremiah 1;5 That is the Lord

10 Remarkable People with Autism: Inspiring Success Stories

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10 Remarkable People with Autism: Inspiring Success Stories Autism is a diverse spectrum, and individuals with autism often possess unique talents, abilities, and perspectives. In this article, we’ll delve into the inspiring success stories of 10 remarkable people with autism who have achieved greatness in their respective fields. Their journeys remind us that autism doesn’t define limits; it often reveals exceptional abilities. Let’s get started! 1. Temple Grandin: Revolutionizing Animal Science Dr. Temple Grandin, a professor of animal science and an advocate for autism, has transformed the livestock industry. Her unique understanding of animal behavior led to groundbreaking innovations in animal handling systems, making them more humane and efficient. 2. Dan Aykroyd: A Hollywood Icon Renowned actor and comedian Dan Aykroyd has entertained generations with his performances in films like “Ghostbusters” and “Blues Brothers.” His remarkable ability to remember and mimic accents and dialects is a testament to his artistic genius. 3. Daryl Hannah: From Hollywood to Activism Actress Daryl Hannah, known for her roles in “Splash” and “Kill Bill,” has passionately embraced environmental activism. Her advocacy work reflects her deep connection to nature, and her journey is a testament to the power of passion. 4. Tony DeBlois: A Musical Prodigy Tony DeBlois is a musical genius who can play more than 20 musical instruments by ear. His extraordinary talent as a blind musician with autism has touched the hearts of many. 5. Dr. Vernon Smith: Nobel Prize Winner Dr. Vernon Smith, a renowned economist and Nobel laureate, has significantly contributed to experimental economics. His work on market behavior and understanding human decision-making is celebrated globally. 6. Amanda Baggs: An Advocate for Nonverbal Autistics Amanda Baggs, a nonverbal autistic, has used her unique form of communication to advocate for the rights of nonverbal autistics. Her influential video, “In My Language,” has inspired countless individuals. 7. Satoshi Tajiri: The Pokémon Creator The imaginative genius behind Pokémon, Satoshi Tajiri, used his fascination with collecting insects as a child to create one of the most beloved franchises in the world, captivating hearts and imaginations. 8. Dr. Stephen Shore: An Educator and Advocate Dr. Stephen Shore, an educator and advocate, has dedicated his life to helping individuals with autism. His journey from being nonverbal to a leading advocate serves as an inspiration to many. 9. John Elder Robison: A Masterful Engineer John Elder Robison, an accomplished engineer and author, has channeled his unique perspective into inventing special effects for rock bands and crafting thought-provoking books on his life with autism. 10. Haley Moss: Pioneering the Legal Field Haley Moss, the first openly autistic lawyer in Florida, has made significant strides in the legal profession. Her advocacy for autism awareness and inclusion highlights the importance of diverse voices in the legal field. These remarkable individuals with autism have achieved success and left an indelible mark on their respective fields. Their stories serve as a reminder that neurodiversity is an asset and that individuals’ unique qualities can lead to extraordinary accomplishments. Whether you are a parent to an autistic child or a caregiver, this is to inspire you. Never give up!!! Read more on the Ultimate guide on how to support your child with Autism

Neurodiversity and Autism: Embracing Differences

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Neurodiversity and Autism: Embracing Differences In a world that thrives on diversity, it’s essential to recognize and celebrate the uniqueness of every individual. Neurodiversity, a term gaining momentum, champions the idea that neurological differences are a natural part of human variation. At the heart of neurodiversity lies autism, a complex spectrum of experiences and abilities. In this journey of understanding and acceptance, we invite you to explore the profound concept of “Neurodiversity and Autism: Embracing Differences.” Let’s dive in! Defining Neurodiversity and Autism Neurodiversity is a concept that encourages us to view neurological differences, including autism, as variations of the human experience rather than deficits. Autism, a neurological condition, is characterized by various traits and characteristics that vary from person to person. It’s not a one-size-fits-all condition but rather a rich tapestry of experiences. Understanding the Spectrum The autism spectrum is a spectrum of possibilities where individuals may find themselves at different points. Some may require extensive support, while others may lead independent lives. This diversity challenges us to rethink our preconceived notions and stereotypes about autism. Common Traits and Characteristics Autism often manifests in distinct traits such as social communication challenges, sensory sensitivities, and repetitive behaviors. However, it’s crucial to remember that these characteristics don’t define the entirety of an individual’s identity. Each person with autism has unique strengths, talents, and interests that go beyond these traits. The Importance of Embracing Differences Fostering Inclusion and Acceptance Embracing neurodiversity is about fostering a culture of inclusion and acceptance. When we embrace differences, we create an environment where everyone feels valued, regardless of their neurological makeup. This inclusivity enriches our communities and workplaces, driving innovation and creativity. Challenging Stigmas and Stereotypes Autism has often been shrouded in stigmas and stereotypes. Challenging these misconceptions can break down barriers and promote a more accurate understanding of autism. Real stories of individuals thriving on the autism spectrum serve as powerful tools for debunking myths. Supporting Neurodiversity Education and Awareness Education and awareness are essential pillars of support for neurodiversity. By educating ourselves about autism and neurodiversity, we can better advocate for inclusion and acceptance. Numerous resources are available to expand your knowledge, from books to online courses. Creating Inclusive Environments Creating inclusive environments means making spaces accessible and comfortable for neurodiverse individuals. Simple adjustments like providing sensory-friendly accommodations or implementing clear communication strategies can make a significant difference. Remember, it’s about creating an atmosphere where everyone can flourish. Personal Stories and Perspectives To truly grasp the essence of neurodiversity, it’s valuable to hear personal stories and perspectives. Jack’s Journey: An Autistic Advocate Jack, a passionate advocate for autism acceptance, shares his journey. “Autism isn’t something to be ‘fixed.’ It’s a part of who I am, and it’s given me unique strengths. When society accepts us for who we are, incredible things happen.” Parenting an Autistic Child: Layo’s Story Layo, a mother of an autistic child, reflects on her journey. “Understanding my child’s neurodiversity has been a beautiful journey. It’s not without challenges but also filled with moments of profound connection and joy.” Resources and Support Community and Advocacy Organizations If you’re seeking to get involved and support neurodiversity, many organizations are dedicated to this cause. The Autism Self Advocacy Network (ASAN) and the National Autistic Society are excellent starting points for advocacy and resources. Recommended Reading and Films If you are interested in delving deeper into the world of neurodiversity and autism, here are some recommended reading materials and films: – “NeuroTribes: The Legacy of Autism and the Future of Neurodiversity” by Steve Silberman – “The Reason I Jump: The Inner Voice of a Thirteen-Year-Old Boy with Autism” by Naoki Higashida – “Life, Animated (a documentary film) – Directed by Roger Ross Williams Conclusion As we conclude our journey into the realm of “Neurodiversity and Autism: Embracing Differences,” we carry with us the understanding that every individual, regardless of their neurology, has a unique contribution. By embracing neurodiversity, challenging stereotypes, and fostering inclusive environments, we create a world where differences are celebrated, and every person is valued for their distinct abilities and perspectives. It’s a world where we move beyond tolerance and into acceptance, where we understand that diversity is not just a concept; it’s the heartbeat of humanity. So, as you step into the world with this newfound knowledge, remember that by embracing differences, you’re not just making a difference—you’re shaping a more compassionate and inclusive future for us all. *Additional Resources and References* – Autism Speaks – Neurodiversity: Some Basic Terms & Definitions by Nick Walker Read more on unlocking your child’s potential with these 14 strategies

The Ultimate Guide: How to Support Your Child with Autism

5 Comments / Parenting / By Atilayo

As a parent, one of the most fulfilling and challenging experiences is raising a child with autism. This neurodevelopmental disorder affects individuals uniquely, and understanding their needs is essential for providing the best support possible. In this blog post, we will explore various aspects of autism and share valuable insights and strategies to help you navigate this journey with confidence and compassion. Let’s dive in. Understanding Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and Its Impact Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is a complex condition that impacts an individual’s social interaction, communication, and behavior. It is characterized by a broad range of symptoms and varying degrees of severity. By understanding the core characteristics of ASD, you can better comprehend your child’s experiences and tailor your approach to their specific needs. Identifying Early Signs of Autism: A Path to Early Intervention Recognizing the early signs of autism is crucial for early intervention and support. While each child is unique, there are common signs and symptoms to look out for, such as delays in speech and language development, repetitive behaviors, and difficulties with social interaction. Timely diagnosis through comprehensive evaluations by healthcare professionals can pave the way for early intervention services and therapies, giving your child the best opportunities for growth and development. Supporting Your Child’s Development Create a Supportive Environment A supportive and nurturing environment is paramount for a child with autism to thrive. This includes creating a safe, structured space that minimizes sensory overload, providing clear and consistent expectations, and incorporating visual supports to aid communication. Establishing a positive and accepting environment can foster your child’s self-esteem, independence, and overall well-being. Establish a Structured Routine A structured routine provides predictability and stability for children with autism, helping them feel secure and reducing anxiety. Incorporating visual schedules, setting consistent daily routines, and using transition strategies can create a sense of order and facilitate smoother transitions between activities. This promotes a sense of control and helps your child navigate their day more efficiently. Promoting Communication and Social Skills Tackle Communication Challenges Individuals with autism often face challenges in verbal and non-verbal communication. These challenges can include difficulties with language comprehension, limited speech, and struggles with social cues. Implementing visual supports, augmentative and alternative communication systems, and social stories can enhance communication and bridge the gap between their thoughts and expression. Foster Social Skills Social interactions can be challenging for individuals with autism due to difficulties in understanding social cues and nuances. By incorporating social skills training, structured playdates, and opportunities for peer interactions, you can support your child in developing meaningful relationships and navigating social situations more confidently. Individualized Education Plans (IEPs) and Special Education Services The Importance of IEPs Individualized Education Plans (IEPs) are crucial tools for supporting the educational journey of children with autism. These plans outline specific goals, accommodations, and interventions to address your child’s unique strengths and challenges. By working collaboratively with educators and school professionals, you can develop an effective IEP that ensures your child receives the necessary educational support and services. Accessing Special Education Services Alongside IEPs, various special education services and accommodations are available to cater to your child’s specific needs. These may include speech therapy, occupational therapy, and specialized classroom settings. It is essential to understand the available services, collaborate with professionals, and advocate for your child’s rights to ensure they receive the education they deserve. Navigating Healthcare and Therapeutic Services Role of Healthcare Providers Healthcare providers play a vital role in diagnosing, managing, and overall well-being of individuals with autism. Regular check-ups, developmental screenings, and consultations with pediatricians, neurologists, and other specialists can provide valuable insights and guidance. Collaborating with healthcare professionals ensures a comprehensive approach to your child’s healthcare needs. Therapeutic Services Therapeutic services, such as occupational therapy, applied behavior analysis (ABA), and speech therapy, can significantly benefit children with autism. These interventions focus on developing essential skills, improving communication, and addressing challenging behaviors. Researching qualified professionals, maximizing healthcare benefits, and seeking recommendations can help you find the most appropriate therapeutic services for your child. Addressing Challenging Behaviors Challenging behaviors are common in individuals with autism and can arise due to sensory sensitivities, communication difficulties, or changes in routine. By understanding the underlying causes, implementing positive behavior support strategies, and utilizing techniques like visual schedules, social stories, and sensory regulation, you can effectively manage and address challenging behaviors in a supportive and constructive manner. Check out our blog post on 9 Critical Strategies to Unlocking Successful Behavior in Children With Autism. Finding Support and Resources Importance of Support Seeking support and connecting with relevant resources is essential for parents of children with autism. Joining support groups, both in-person and online, provides opportunities to share experiences, gain valuable insights, and find a sense of community. Additionally, accessing reputable websites, books, and organizations dedicated to autism can provide further knowledge, guidance, and assistance. Check out our blog post on 12 Essential Websites for Immigrant Families Navigating Autism in Germany. Support Groups and Online Communities Support groups and online communities specifically catered to parents of children with autism offer a wealth of support, encouragement, and practical advice. These platforms create spaces for sharing experiences, asking questions, and connecting with individuals who understand the unique challenges and triumphs of raising a child with autism. Taking Care of Yourself as a Parent Importance of Self-Care As a parent, taking care of yourself is not only essential but necessary. Prioritizing self-care replenishes your energy, reduces stress, and enhances your ability to navigate the challenges of parenting a child with autism effectively. Recognize that your own physical, emotional, and mental health matters. Managing Stress and Prioritizing Self-Care To manage stress and prioritize self-care, implement practical strategies into your daily life. Practice stress-management techniques such as deep breathing exercises, meditation, or engaging in hobbies that bring joy. Establish boundaries, seek respite, delegate tasks, and ask for help from family, friends, or support networks. Moving forward In conclusion, parenting a child with autism requires understanding, support, and dedication. By embracing the uniqueness of autism,

Unlocking Your Child’s Potential: 14 Autism Thriving Strategies

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Are you a parent or caregiver of a child with autism? Unlocking your child’s full potential can be challenging, but it is absolutely possible with the right strategies. This article will explore 14 autism-thriving strategies that can help your child thrive and reach their fullest potential. From creating a supportive environment to fostering communication skills, these strategies have been proven to make a significant difference in the lives of children with autism. Whether you’re just starting this journey or seeking new ways to support your child’s growth, this article will provide practical tips and insights. Join us as we delve into the world of autism-thriving strategies and discover the transformative power they hold for your child’s development. Let’s embark on this journey together and unlock your child’s potential! 1. Provide Structure and Routine: Children with autism may feel overwhelmed by changes in routine and may benefit from a structured and predictable environment. You can provide this structure by creating a predictable schedule for your child, including structured activities, meals, and sleep. 2. Use Visual Aids: If your child is non-verbal, your child may benefit from visual aids such as pictures, diagrams, and charts. You can use these aids to help them understand routines, schedules, and expectations. 3. Modify the Environment To Promote Communication: Children with autism may have difficulty communicating their needs and wants. As a parent, you can modify your child’s environment to promote communication by using visual aids, simplifying language and gestures. 4. Use Positive Reinforcement: Children with autism may respond well to positive reinforcement. You can use this technique with your child by rewarding good behavior and praising your child when they achieve a goal. For example, you can use words like “well done,” “you did it,” “you can do it,” and “good job.” 5. Create a Safe and Sensory-Friendly Environment: Children with autism may have unique sensory needs and be sensitive to certain stimuli. As a parent, you can create a safe and sensory-friendly environment for your child by minimizing noise, providing comfortable seating and lighting, and reducing clutter. 6. Get an Official Diagnosis: To access the benefits and aid offered by the government and various support systems for children with autism, it is necessary to obtain an official diagnosis. 7. Research School System: You should research the schools in your area to find those that offer specialized programs for students with special needs and inclusion. This may include classes specifically designed for children with autism or schools with trained staff and resources to support these children. Visiting the school, meeting with teachers and administrators, and asking questions is essential to ensure the school is a good fit for your child. 8. Take Advantage of Early Intervention Programs: Early intervention programs can be a critical part of your child’s development. These programs are designed to support children with developmental delays, including autism, before they enter school. Many countries have early intervention programs that provide services to children from birth to school, such as speech therapy, occupational therapy, and physical therapy. 9. Stay Informed on Government Aid Support Systems/Disability Rights: Families of children with autism may be eligible for various government aid programs. These programs can help cover the cost of medical care, therapy, and other vital services for children with autism. You should be aware of your child’s legal rights and the resources available to your child. In the United state, The Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) protects children with disabilities, including the right to free and appropriate education. Advocacy organizations can also provide support and resources for you and your child. 10. Seek Help and Support: Don’t hesitate to ask for help from family, friends, or professionals. Raising a child with autism can be challenging, and you need all the help you can get. Connect with other parents of children with autism. You can join support groups, attend conferences or workshops, or find online communities to share your experiences and get advice from other parents. 12. Take Care of Your Health: Make sure to eat well, exercise regularly, and get enough sleep. Taking care of your physical health can help you manage stress and stay mentally healthy. Consider seeing a therapist to help you deal with the emotional challenges of raising a child with autism. Therapy can help you manage your emotions and provide you with coping strategies. 13. Take a Break: It is essential to take time for yourself, whether going for a walk, reading a book, or relaxing. Taking a break can help you recharge and reduce stress. 14. Stay Informed: Stay up-to-date on the latest research, therapies, and interventions for autism. This can help you make informed decisions about your child’s care and treatment. In conclusion, raising a child with autism can be challenging, but it can also be gratifying. With patience, understanding, and a willingness to learn, you can create an environment that allows your child to thrive and reach their full potential. Remember to be kind to yourself and give yourself credit for the hard work you do every day. You are doing the best you can, and it’s okay to make mistakes. Celebrate your child’s successes, no matter how small they may be. Recognize your accomplishments and take pride in your hard work and dedication to your child’s well-being. While there may be difficult moments, the love and joy of raising a child with autism are immeasurable. You can do it! Read more The Ultimate Guide: How to Support Your Child with Autism

Autism in Germany: 12 Websites for Immigrant Families

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Autism is a complex condition that affects children worldwide, with estimates suggesting that 1 in 100 children are diagnosed with autism. Raising a child with autism can be challenging for any family. Still, it is more difficult for immigrant families living in Germany due to language barriers and limited access to resources and support. That’s why I have compiled a comprehensive list of 12 websites that offer valuable information, resources, and support for immigrant families living with autism in Germany. These websites provide a wide range of resources, including diagnosis, treatment, and education, to help you navigate the complexities of raising a child with autism in a new country. Whether you’re a newly arrived immigrant family or have lived in Germany for years, these websites can help you find the information and support you need to help your child thrive. With these resources at your fingertips, you can feel confident and empowered as you navigate raising a child with autism in Germany. Let‘s dive in. 1. Autismus Deutschland e.V. – This is the largest autism organization in Germany that provides information, support, and advocacy for individuals with autism and their families. 2. Autismus-Kultur – This organization focuses on promoting autism awareness and acceptance through art and culture. 3. Autismus-Therapie – This website provides information on therapy options for children and adults with ASD, including behavioral and developmental approaches. 4. Deutsche Gesellschaft für Autismus-Spektrum-Störungen e.V. – This professional organization provides education, training, and research on autism spectrum disorder. 5. Autismus-Kompetenz-Zentrum – This organization offers specialized support services for individuals with autism and their families, including diagnostic assessments and therapy. 6. Autismus-Sprechstunde – This website provides information on diagnostic assessments for autism and offers a directory of specialized diagnostic centers in Germany. 7. Autismus-Deutschland-Förderverein – This organization provides support and resources for families of children with autism, including educational materials and workshops. 8. Elterninitiative Autismus – This organization provides support and resources for parents of children with autism, including information on local support groups and workshops. 9. Autismus-Netzwerk Hamburg This organization provides information, support, and resources for individuals with autism and their families in the Hamburg region. 10. Autismus-Kompetenz-Netzwerk – This network of professionals provides resources and support for individuals with autism and their families, including diagnostic assessments and therapy. 11. Autismus-Spektrum-Therapie – This organization provides therapy services for individuals with autism, including behavioral and developmental approaches. 12. Autismus-Zentrum für Erwachsene – This organization provides support and resources for adults with autism, including vocational training and employment services. Living with autism can be challenging, but families can thrive with the right resources and support. We hope that our list of websites has provided valuable information and resources to help you navigate this complex journey. From diagnosis and treatment to education and community events, these websites offer a range of resources to help you find the support you need. Remember, you are not alone on this journey. With the help of these websites and the support of your community, you can help your child with autism reach their full potential and lead a happy, fulfilling life. Read more Unlocking Your Child’s Potential: 14 Autism Thriving Strategies The Ultimate Guide: How to Support Your Child with Autism 9 Effective Strategies for successful behavior in Autism

9 Effective Strategies for Successful Behavior in Autism.

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Imagine living in a world where every sensation is amplified; every sound, every touch, and every movement can feel overwhelming and chaotic. For children with Autism, this is often their reality, and it is a significant contributor to challenging behaviors. What do you do when your child’s behavior is beginning to negatively impact their life, your life, and those around you? As parents, you can help unlock successful behavior in your child by using creative and empathetic strategies. In this post, I will teach you some creative and empathy-based effective strategies for successful behavior in Autism. Join me on this journey towards a more empathetic and inclusive world for children with Autism. Let’s dive in. 1. Understand the Behavior: Understanding why your child is displaying challenging behavior is essential. Is there a trigger, or is your child trying to communicate a need or want? Finding out the underlying cause of the behavior can help you develop strategies to manage or prevent it. 2. Use Positive Reinforcement: Children with Autism often respond well to positive reinforcement. Praise and reward your child when they display positive behavior, such as following a routine or using appropriate language, which increases the possibility of that behavior repeating itself. Over time, your child learns to associate positive behavior with positive outcomes and will engage in those behaviors. Children with Autism often respond well to positive reinforcement. Praise and reward your child when they display positive behavior, such as following a routine or using appropriate language, which increases the possibility of that behavior repeating itself. Over time, your child learns to associate positive behavior with positive outcomes and will engage in those behaviors. 3. Implement Visual Supports: Visual aids such as picture schedules and social stories can help your child understand what is expected of them and reduce anxiety. Using visual supports can also help your child anticipate changes in routine or environment, reducing challenging behaviors and increasing positive behaviors. To find out more about visual aid, click here 4. Provide Sensory Input: Many children with Autism have sensory sensitivities that can contribute to challenging behaviors. Providing sensory input, such as a weighted blanket, fidget toy, or stress ball, and sensory activities like hand and foot painting, playdough, mud, or water beads can help your child regulate their sensory system and reduce anxiety. 5. Use Calming Techniques: When your child displays challenging behavior, calming techniques such as deep breathing or progressive muscle relaxation can help reduce their anxiety and de-escalate the situation. To find out more about calming techniques, click on the link 6. Breaking Down Tasks Into Smaller Steps: Children with Autism may become overwhelmed when presented with complex tasks. When introducing a new task or skill to your child, break them down into smaller steps, making them more manageable and achievable for the child. This strategy can reduce frustration and increase the likelihood of successful completion. 7. Teach a Replacing Behavior: It is sometimes productive to replace your child’s challenging behavior with a more appropriate behavior rather than focusing on the negative one. Teach the new behavior you want your child to learn through modeling and positive reinforcement, and monitor progress, adjusting the approach as necessary. 8. Encourage Positive Practice: Reinforcement to encourage the desired behavior and help the child feel motivated to continue practicing. Unlike correcting unwanted behaviors, positive practice involves practicing a desired behavior repeatedly until it becomes a habit. Help your child repeatedly practice a desired behavior rather than correcting an unwanted behavior. It’s important to note that positive practice should always be accompanied by positive. 9. Seek Professional Support Seek professional support if you struggle to manage your child’s challenging behaviors. A behavior therapist can provide additional strategies and support tailored to your child’s specific needs. You can do it. Handling challenging behavior in Autism can be a complex and emotional journey. Being patient, flexible, and empathetic towards yourself and your child is essential. Remember to take care of yourself as you try different strategies and techniques. Whether taking a break, seeking support from loved ones, or practicing self-care, remember that you are doing your best; every step forward is a victory. With time, effort, and lots of love, you can help your child overcome challenges and reach their full potential. Keep on keeping on! To learn more about Autism, read our post on Unlocking Your Child’s Potential: 14 Autism Thriving Strategies The Ultimate Guide: How to Support Your Child with Autism 12 Essential Websites for Immigrant Families Navigating Autism in Germany

How to Homeschool Your Child: +Tips for Special Needs Children

3 Comments / Homeschooling, Parenting / By Atilayo

Little did you anticipate that you would find yourself frantically searching “How to Homeschool Your Child” until you found yourself on a lockdown, leaving you with two young elementary children and an urgent need to gather educational resources for your family. While homeschooling has existed for quite some time, it emerged as a widespread phenomenon during the Covid-19 crisis. Now that the pandemic is over, many parents recognize the numerous benefits of homeschooling compared to the traditional school setting. They are gradually deschooling their children and incorporating homeschooling into their daily routine, seeking a more personalized and flexible approach to education. In this article, we will be your trusted guide, walking you through all the necessary steps to embark on a fruitful homeschooling journey that caters to you and your child’s unique needs. So, let’s dive right in. Step 1: Examine the Homeschooling Benefits for Your Child Homeschooling offers a range of advantages, some of which are; Individualized Learning One of the most significant advantages of homeschooling is the ability to provide individualized learning experiences, particularly for children with special needs. In a homeschooling environment, you can tailor educational approaches, curriculum, and pace to suit your child’s unique learning style and requirements. This personalized attention can foster greater understanding, engagement, and academic growth, ensuring your child receives the support they need to thrive. Health Issues Attending a traditional school may pose significant challenges for children with health issues or compromised immune systems. Homeschooling allows you to create a safe and controlled environment for your child’s learning, reducing their exposure to potential health risks. By homeschooling, you can prioritize your child’s well-being while ensuring they receive a quality education. Flexibility for Families Homeschooling offers unparalleled flexibility, allowing families to create schedules that align with their unique circumstances. This flexibility is precious for parents who work unconventional hours, travel frequently, or have other commitments that may hinder adherence to a rigid school schedule. With homeschooling, you can design a learning routine that accommodates your family’s needs, ensuring a balanced and harmonious lifestyle. Bullying Concerns Bullying is prevalent in traditional school environments and can harm a child’s well-being and academic performance. Homeschooling creates a safe and nurturing atmosphere, shielding your child from potential bullying incidents. This fosters a positive emotional environment where your child can thrive, free from the anxieties and pressures associated with bullying. Problems with Traditional School Learning Homeschooling allows you to break away from rigid structures and explore alternative educational approaches. You can adapt teaching methods, incorporate hands-on experiences, explore specialized subjects, and encourage a love for lifelong learning. Step 2:Determine the Best Age To Homeschool Your Child The ideal age to homeschool your child cannot be definitively determined, as it hinges on several factors, including, Developmental Readiness Some children may show signs of readiness for homeschooling early, while others require more time to develop their foundational skills. Assess your child’s cognitive abilities, social readiness, and emotional maturity. Observing their curiosity, ability to focus, and enthusiasm for learning can provide valuable insights. Family Circumstances: Consider your family dynamics, commitments, and resources when deciding the best age to start homeschooling. Evaluate parental availability, financial considerations, and the available support network. Homeschooling requires time, effort, and dedication from parents or guardians; therefore, assessing if your current circumstances can accommodate this commitment is essential. Child’s Individual Needs: Each child has unique learning styles, interests, and educational requirements. Some may benefit from individualized attention and flexibility offered early, while others may thrive in a traditional school environment. Consider your child’s personality, learning preferences, and specific needs. Reflect on whether homeschooling can better meet their academic, social, and emotional needs. Step 3:Know the Basics of Homeschooling. As you embark on your homeschooling journey, it is crucial to acquaint yourself with its fundamental principles. By familiarizing yourself with the basics, you will be better equipped to create a nurturing and effective learning environment for your child. Know Your State’s Requirements for Homeschooling Each state or country has its regulations and requirements for homeschooling. Understand the legal aspects, such as registration, reporting, and record-keeping obligations. Learn about curriculum and testing requirements. Understand your state’s needs, and navigate the homeschooling journey within the framework of the law. Join a Homeschooling Group Joining a homeschooling group or association can provide valuable support and resources for your homeschooling journey. These groups often consist of experienced homeschooling parents who can offer guidance, advice, and a sense of community. They may organize activities, field trips, and co-op classes, providing opportunities for social interaction and collaborative learning with other homeschooling families. Engaging with a homeschooling group can enhance your experience and help address any challenges that may arise along the way. Attend Homeschooling Events & Conventions Homeschooling events and conventions offer a wealth of information, inspiration, and networking opportunities. These gatherings bring together homeschooling families, curriculum providers, and educational experts. They typically feature workshops, panel discussions, and exhibits showcasing various educational resources and approaches. Attending these events can help you explore different teaching methods, curriculum options, and educational philosophies. They also allow connecting with like-minded individuals, sharing experiences, and gaining valuable insights to enrich your homeschooling journey. How to Homeschool your child yourself Know Your Child’s Learning Style & Interests Understanding your child’s learning style and interests is essential for tailoring their homeschooling experience. Identify whether they are, Visual learners: Does your child grasp and retain information most effectively through visual aids such as images, diagrams, charts, graphs, and videos? These individuals process and comprehend information best when presented in a graphic format that appeals to their visual perception. Auditory learners: Does your child absorb information primarily through hearing and listening? These individuals excel in understanding and retaining knowledge when it is presented through verbal instructions, discussions, lectures, and audio recordings. Kinesthetic learners: Does your child acquire knowledge and understanding through physical movement, hands-on activities, and tactile experiences? These individuals learn best when actively engaging in tasks that involve touching, moving, and manipulating objects. And adapt your teaching methods accordingly. Incorporate their

20+ Essential Novel Writing Tips &Tools for Beginners

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20+ Essential Novel Writing Tips &Tools for Beginners Do you need novel writing tips to take your writing to the next level? Are you ready to put your idea onto paper, but you are faced with the daunting task of finding the perfect starting point? The first word feels crucial, and you need guidance. Don’worry: Crafting a captivating novel demands creativity, skill, and unwavering dedication. Whether you’re a novice venturing into the realm of writing or an experienced wordsmith seeking to refine your craft, this collection of 40+ essential novel writing tips will serve as your compass through the exhilarating and occasionally challenging process of bringing your story to life. Within these tips, you’ll discover invaluable techniques to enhance your storytelling abilities and ensure your novel shines brightly. We will also be providing you with 11 lists of tools that will assist you with your writing. So, without further delay, let’s dive in. 1. Explore your ideas: Allow your imagination to wander and explore various ideas for your novel. Think outside the box, push boundaries, and challenge conventions. Consider different genres, themes, and concepts that spark your interest. Embrace the freedom of creativity and let your ideas flow without judgment. 2. Have a rough guideline: While spontaneity is essential, having a rough guideline or outline can provide structure and direction. Create a basic framework that outlines the main plot points, significant events, and character arcs. This will help you stay focused and prevent your story from meandering aimlessly. 3. Outline your plot: Crafting a compelling story is crucial to captivating your readers. Develop a clear and engaging storyline that keeps them hooked from beginning to end. Outline the key events, conflicts, and turning points that drive the narrative forward. A well-structured plot ensures a cohesive and satisfying reading experience. If you are new to outlining your story, read this post on how to summarize your plot https://milanote.com/guide/story-outline 4. Research your story: To add depth and authenticity to your novel, conduct thorough research. Dive into relevant topics, whether historical, cultural, or scientific. Explore different perspectives, gather facts, and immerse yourself in the details to bring your story to life. Solid research adds credibility and enhances the overall reading experience. 5. Know your character: Your characters are the heart and soul of your novel. Take the time to understand them fully. Develop their backgrounds, personalities, motivations, and desires. Delve into their fears, flaws, and aspirations. The more you know your characters, the more relatable and compelling they become for your readers. 6. Choose your narrative: Consider the narrative perspective that best serves your story. Will you tell it from a first-person point of view, allowing readers to experience events through the eyes of the protagonist? Or will you opt for a third-person perspective that provides a broader view of the story? Choose the narrative style that enhances your storytelling and engages your readers. 7. Draw inspiration from an actual individual: Find inspiration in real-life individuals with qualities, experiences, or perspectives that resonate with your characters. Look for inspiration in their strengths, weaknesses, and triumphs. Drawing from real-life examples adds depth and authenticity to your characters, making them relatable and compelling. 8. Tease your reader: Capture your reader’s attention from the very beginning. Tease them with intriguing hints, questions, or conflicts that make them eager to uncover the answers. Create a sense of anticipation and curiosity that propels them forward, eagerly turning the pages to discover what happens next. 9. Be accountable: Hold yourself responsible for your writing goals. Set deadlines, create a writing schedule, and commit to it. Embrace discipline and consistency in your writing practice. By being accountable, you ensure steady progress and overcome the challenges that may arise during the writing process. 10. Take a break: Writing can be mentally and emotionally demanding. It’s essential to take breaks to rest, recharge, and gain fresh perspectives. Step away from your work and engage in activities that inspire you. This downtime allows your mind to process ideas and rejuvenate your creative energy. 11. Write every day: Develop a writing habit by committing to writing every day, even if it’s just for a short period. Consistency is critical to honing your craft and making progress. Make it a non-negotiable part of your daily routine, and watch your writing skills improve over time. Even the world-renowned author Stephen King writes at least 1,000 to 2,000 words daily. h ttps://famouswritingroutines.com/collections/daily-word-counts-of-17-famous-authors/ 12. Play with literary Devices: Harness the power of language to create a vivid and immersive reading experience. Experiment with literary techniques such as metaphors, similes, and descriptive language. Paint scenes with sensory details that transport your readers into your story. Use words that evoke emotions and captivate their imaginations. 13. Build your writing room: Create a dedicated space for your writing, whether physical or mental. Designate a place where you can focus and let your creativity flow. Eliminate distractions, surround yourself with inspiring objects or visuals, and establish an environment that fosters concentration and productivity. 14. Keep your work private: While sharing your work and seeking feedback is valuable, protecting your creative space is also essential. Keep your early drafts and ideas private until you’re ready to share them. This allows you to explore and experiment without external influence, fostering your unique writing voice. 15. Join a group: Connect with fellow writers by joining writing groups, workshops, or online communities. Engage in discussions, share your work, and seek support from like-minded individuals. Surrounding yourself with fellow writers provides a valuable encouragement, feedback, and inspiration network. 16. Develop a compelling opening: Your opening sets the tone for your entire novel. Craft an opening that grabs your reader’s attention and compels them to continue reading. Intrigue them with a captivating scene, introduce a compelling conflict, or pose thought-provoking questions that pique their curiosity. 17. Create three-dimensional characters: Bring your characters to life by giving them depth and complexity. Avoid one-dimensional stereotypes and develop well-rounded characters with distinct personalities, strengths, weaknesses, and desires. Show their growth,

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